I always love to flirt with people, because I think its fun
to meet them and possibly make new friends. In
addition, I may have the opportunity to get to spend
more time with them later. Here are some flirting
approaches that I like to use.
If you want to attract some attention try to find
something unusual to wear. It could be anything like an
uncommon pair of sunglasses or even jewelry. I use this
flirting approach because I know it’s easier for others to
flirt with me. Here’s an example of wearing something
unexpected. I wear small ski goggles whenever I’m
outdoors, because they provide needed protection for
my eyes. It turns out that my goggles are a
conversation piece. This was a pleasant surprise one
day when I was the only person wearing goggles at the
Mirage pool in Las Vegas. During the day, people
would start conversations with me asking questions
about my goggles and even complementing me about
them.
When you’re in a public area and you find someone you
think you would like to meet. Walk straight right up to
them and flirt with them. This flirting approach makes it
clear to them that you are interested to meet and
prevents hesitation on your part.
Many times you will find that the person you are
attracted to is part of a group, and its best to initially
ignore that person in your flirting approach. Try telling a
story that you have memorized to everyone in the
group. Remembering to have eye contact with everyone
in the group except the one person you really are
interested in meeting. You will find that the person your
interested in becomes more active in the conversation.
This is a flirting approach that I love because the person
you are interested in feels left out and this is why they
will tend to become more active in the conversation and
later show more attraction for you at the end of your
story with the whole group.
Questions are a fun flirting approach because questions
can be used to start a conversation, but if they cannot
answer your question within a few seconds quickly try
another question.
If you like to dance use it as a way to attract attention.
You may just happen to have the flirting approach that
makes you the flirted when others come to join you.
It could be a little scary approaching a large group of
people by yourself, but this can be easier if you
consider where you are. For example, let’s say you are
at a snow skiing resort then you could ask if they are
skiers and where they’re from.
When I start to flirt with someone I always like to share
some of the things about myself that I feel good about.
In addition, I may add some of my accomplishments in
the conversation too. The reason for this is to create a
sense of value that I can provide to them. After this is
done I can ask questions about them. The main idea
about this flirting approach is that I try to create
attraction towards me by building my value to them.
This will start a bond between us. In addition, when I
call them later they will remember me, because of the
value that I can offer them.
Popularity can be useful when it’s used as a flirting
influence. Try starting some conversations with others
around the person your interested in meeting. If you do
well with them then you can flirt with the person your
interested in with the attraction of your popularity. I like
to use this flirting approach when I believe that I’m
going to need more value when flirting with someone
very special.
It’s always good to appear relaxed when you first flirt
with someone, because this will make that person feel
relaxed too. Try some smiles here and there and
slightly waive your head and upper body a little from
time to time too. This will create that relaxed feeling and
it looks sexy too.
If you think you can moderately tease someone then try
a little, because teasing can create smiles.
Finally, you can see that there are several flirting
approaches that can give you some advantages when
you’re out flirting. I even like to keep a small list of
these in my pocket when I’m starting out. Most
importantly, you may find it difficult at the beginning to
flirt with people, but if you practice your flirting skills
then your skills will improve. Once you’re skills are
polished then you will agree that flirting is fun and
makes it easy to meet more people that you would love
to be with.
Reference: Game On
By Jessica Center
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